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Elaine Atkinson's avatar

I’ve never really thought about whether I want to be liked by men but on reflection I think the need for their approval has always been there since most of them have occupied the senior roles throughout my life and career. It was only when I became a leader myself that I wanted to be respected more than liked but not by changing myself to fit in or continually proving my worth through ‘doing’. Of course, things have progressed but then sometimes I’m reminded of our differences when I see women being spoken over, constantly challenged or not trusted for their expertise and opinions.

And it’s hard not to settle for being liked.

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